About

I may not be the prettiest in your eyes from the outside but if you could see the soul and what’s inside It might just change your mind.
No one calls me beautiful, not even that of the one with the ring on my finger, an that has become fine. Each morning when I wake up, the face that stares back at me in the mirror, is happy with what is staring back, because of what it has to give.

There’s not much to be said. Those who know me didn’t make it there easily. Those who don’t know me either don’t have the moment it took, or didn’t want to.

At the end of the day, I am one of the simplest creatures you will meet. My biggest flaw is my biggest heart, I give too many chances when I have been hurt by those I let my guard down to. And it took alot of fear and time for me to get over the fact that I would keep my guard up to many that maybe deserved a chance by the fear of those that have hurt me.

I finally let someone have that chance and it was the best chance ever, he tore down those walls and I will soon be a wife. I am a daughter, a sister, a proud aunt and a Dog mom.

I have been to heaven and hell, and back.. most literally in life since birth, and have made it through all life has handed me, even in my weakest feeling moments, I rose above. And that is why my blog remained. It stayed to help others, it stays so others can see that darkness turns to light, but you may still and are allowed bad days (for those that follow).

We learn that life is not all rainbows, puppies, unicorns and daisy fields. It’s peaks and valley’s. It disappointments and improvements in life all around. It goes up.. it goes down, but in the end the roller coaster always has that happy ending if you wish to see. Some days it became just me seeing my dog after working 2 jobs, and by not letting go or giving up.. the sun shined… so as the saying goes… Even the sun shines on a dog’s ass.. so keep on pushing. And remember, even If you fall on your face, you’re still moving forward.

Follow me if you wish, my blog is random, its my brain without drugs, which may be more scary. It’s real, raw, random thoughts. It’s life. It’s just me. There are no filters there are no editors telling me what to publish, and nothing gets deleted over delicate feathers and tight panties.. its why I like my little corner. Don’t like it.. leave.. find it helpful, grab a straight jacket on the right —> and maybe later we can all get our marbles back.

What People Say

“Women don’t need to find a voice, they have a voice, and they need to feel empowered to use it, and people need to be encouraged to listen.”

– Meghan Markle

“It took me quite a long time to develop a voice, and now that I have it, I am not going to be silent.”

– Madeleine Albright

Don’t cry because it’s over, smile because it happened.

Dr. Seuss

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