Or that’s what Patty Smyth says. But, she also says ‘there’s a danger in loving somebody to much, and it’s bad when you know it’s your heart you can’t trust.’
So, I am bored in training and looking for a subject to babble on. As I go through my followed blogs, ‘love and relationships’ are still the main topics.. February and Valentines Month. So, here we babble…
How do you differentiate the two? How do you know if you’re giving too much or not enough. It really depends on the person on the receiving end, I suppose, but at the same time what about who you are. I am a person with a big heart. When I love, I show it and I love deep. I am affectionate, I show it through words, and via daily behavior.
But, I wander if there is just that of a danger. If it becomes smothering. If by exceeding the the energy, attention, and effort instead of matching that of how the other is in a relationship. No fault of either of you, no flaw of either of you. It’s just the way you are wired. Then again, if you are both the same that would be sooo boring! Haha
But, here you are, you perfect match and you worry. Worried it is making them distant in an emotional sense, worried you are coming off clingy by loving, worried who you are is just to much.
My take, love how you love. Give how you give and if you are truly loved for who you are, you will be loved. If you are doing to much or not enough and it’s a problem, hopes would be it would get talked about. I know it is hard to talk about. I have been there, done that. And It doesn’t always end well trying to tell someone they aren’t loving you. But that is just as well because it also answers all your questions.
Most of all, Love yourself, if anyone can do it best.. it’s YOU!