The heart that loves you

When it comes to a heart that is meant to love you know this.. The heart that is meant to love you will fight for you when you want to give up, they will be your wall to lean on when you feel like you are going to fall over, pick you up when you are feeling down and will give their smile when it’s hard for you to find yours.  They will never get strength from seeing you weak, power from seeing you hurt, or joy from seeing you cry.  The heart that’s meant to love you wants to see the best you, not the hurt you.  But, even if they have to ever see the hurt you, they will comfort you and not judge you for your pain.

Second and foremost. Never, ever settle for less than you deserve.  You may think you are not pretty enough, smart enough or you have too many insecurities and flaws to count, but there is going to be someone in the world who truly loves you for you.  Your flaws will be perfectly imperfect.  Don’t ever feel like you have to put up with someone just because they gave you attention for the first time in a long time.   You are beautiful in your own individual way, so never lower your standards.  Especially if you had someone in your past who made you feel as if they no one else would want you.  This too will make you think that that first person that comes along to show you that attention, is the one you need the attention from.  We must first love ourselves before we can be loved.

Find the one who will send you a text just to say they are thinking of you, and mean it.  Find the one that when you think about them, you actually smile and know why you are smiling.  Not just a small smile on your face, but a smile in your heart.   Find the one who can make you feel like a teenager all over again.  Find the one who you can truly be you around, who you don’t have to walk on eggshells with.  One you can laugh with and smile with until your face hurts.   But, also the one, that if you don’t hear from them for a few hours, that is okay too.  There isn’t an uneasy feeling or concern, or a fear or thought of what is going on, where you still feel connected with that person.  Find a bond that fits and a comfort that is warm.  Because in the end, that is what will most likely last, I think.  But, what do I know, right?  I just wrote a perfect fairy tale and I will most likely turn into a pumpkin at midnight.

When did I become such a sap… probably when I finally found and fell in love


Author: Dana Gidner-Kristal

perfectly imperfect

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